Shaadi K Liye Kis Tarha Ki Ladki Ko Pasand Karni  Chahiye

Ladki ko pasand karne ka kia meyaar hona chahiye.

Shaadi k liye Ladke ko pasand karne ka aur Ladki k inteqaab karne ka  alag alag logo ka Meyaar hota hai.

Koi unchee aur ala Khandan ki ladki ko pasand karta hai, koi Paise wali ladki ko pasand karta hai, koi bahut Smart aur Teez Tarrar ladki ko pasand karta hai, Ye har insaan ka apna apna Inteqaab hai, aur apna apna Meyaar aur uski apni apni pasand hai.

Laikin hame ye deekhna hai K  Allah Ke Rasool Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam  ne Ladki ko pasand karne ka kia Meyaar bataya hai.

Allah Ke Rasool Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam ne Ladki ko pasand karne ka aur Ladki ko Muntaqab karne ka jo Meyaar bataya hai to wo do Cheeze hai. Shaadi karne se pahele Ladki k ander in doo (TWO) baato ko deekhle.

1.  Hazrat E Maqil Bin Yasar  Razi Allahu Tala Anhu Bayan karte hai, yek shaqs Nabi kareem Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam Ki qidmath me aaya, Usne kaha k maine yek unchee Qandan wali aur Aala Mansab wali Aurath ko Shaadi k liye pasand kia hai, Magar usse baccha nahi hota.

tuo Allah Ke Rasool Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam ne us Shaqs ko Shaadi karne se Mana kardiya.

Fir wo shaqs Dusri (2nd time) aaya aur usne aakar wohi baat kahi tuo Allah Ke Rasool Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam ne us phir use Shaadi k liye mana kardiya.

Fir Theesri martaba (3rd time) wo aaya tuo Allah Ke Rasool Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam ne Farmaya tum log ziada muhabbat karni wali aur ziada acchi tarha bacche paida karne wali Auratho se Shaadi kia karo. Q ke mai tum logo ki kasratee tadaadh ki wajah se, kal Qayamath k din dusri ummato per Naaz karunga.

Tue Mohtaram Nazneen Allah Ke Rasool Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam ne do (two) Batun ki nishaan degi farmaie

1. Jis ladki se Tum Shaadi karna chate ho, to pahele ye dekhlo k wo ziada muhabbat karne wali ho. aur uske baad ye bhi deekhlo, k kahin isa to nahi k usse baccha na hota ho, aur wo baanj ho.
2. Ladki isi honi chahiye jo Baanj na ho aur use acchi tarha bacche paida hua karen.Laikin ab sawal ye hai k yek ladka kaise Jaan sakega ki jis ladki se Shaadi karna chata hi, wo bahut bahabbat karne wali hai yaa wo baanj nahi hai, wo baccha paida karne wali hai.To isko Janne aur parakhne ka nihayath Asaan tariqa hai. ye wo ke Ladkhi k qhandan ki aurotho ko dekhan jay. K uske Qandan ki Jin aurotho ka Nikah hua hi, to wo kaisi hi, wo apne shahoro tut kar chahane wali hi, unse ziada mohabbat karne wali hai, ya unse nafrat karne wali aur unko tension dene wali hi.

   Aur ye bhi pata chaljayega k shaadi hone k baad wo bacche karne wali sabit hui ya wo Baanj nikli. Lehaza Allah Ke Rasool Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam ki is hidayat per amal karte hue in dono baato ko deekh lena aur jis ladki ya jis aurath se Nikah Shaadi ka iraada hai, usko is meyaar per parakh lena nihayat zaruri hai.  Warna bagair in dono baato ko dekhe huwe janche hue aur parkhe hue bagair dusri cheezo ko aap apne pasand ka Meyaar banaigy.

   Tu hosakta hai aap ki zindegi khatai me padjaye aur aap ki zindegi khush gawar aur khush haal na ho sakhe isliye zaruri hai k  Allah Ke Rasool Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam ki is hidayath per zarur amal kia jaye.