Nikamme Ladke ki Shaadi Karni Chahiye ya Nahi

Nikamme Ladke ki Shaadi Karni Chahiye ya Nahi

Ladkha Kab Shaadi k Qabeel hota hi Aur Nikamme Ladke ki Shaadi Karni Chahiye ya Nahi

Umar k lihaz se jab ladka 15years ka hojata hai, hamari shariyat us ladke ko Adult kaheti hai yani Baalig karar deti hi.

15 saal ya iske uper Umar (age)  hi honi chahiye Shaadi karne k liye, ye Umar k lehaz se.

Aur Shaadi kab karni chahiye isme teen (3) cheeze zoor masbut honi chahiye wo ye hai ki:

  1. Wo biwi k liye non-Nafta (Basic Requirements) (Buniyadi 3 cheeze) provide karsata ho, Non-Nafta me fir aur 3 cheeze aati hai wo ye hi, yek Rahaish , Dusra Lebaaz, aur teesra Khana Peena.Rahaish ka ye tassavvur nahi hi k alag Makaan lekar dena, balke join family hai wo apni biwi ko yek Room provide karsakta hi, k Privacy rahe, ander se kundi laga sake, kahi milne baher jaay baher se taala laga sake to bas ye kaafi hi ye Rahaish hi. Next Lebaaz aur Khana peena ye wo afford karsakta hai ladka.
  2. Hukuke Zaujiyath ki adaigi per Qudrath ho usko
  3. Age (umar ) honi chahiye aur thodi tarbiyath hojay bahut hi choti umar me shaadi kardewala bhi bilkul isa hota hai ki, jaise kisike haat me kheelona dedena. Kuch patahi nahi hota kia karna aur kia nahi karna, kistarha ghar chalana, kaise mezaz samajna hi, laubali pan ziadahota hi to qarabi hai.

Nikamme Ladke :

Nikamme Ladke se Muraad yahi hai k kamata hai na Dhamata hai, uski shaadi karde, Ye zara bhi durusth nahi hai.

Agar koi ladka Medically taur per fit hai misalpe taur per non-Nafta apni zauja ko Nahi desakta hai, to is ka shaadi karna MAKRUTA-HERMI hi. Agar yaqeen hai k nahi deesakta hun to bahut bada gunah hi bilkul nahi kisi ki bacchi zindegi Qaraab karab na kare.

Bahut se Maa-Baap ise hote hi, Kamata  Dhamata to nahi iski Shaadi kardete hai, Khud kamane lagjayga. Aap apni beti ki shaadi ise kisi nikamme se kardenge, Shayad hamari beti k janebaad Kamane lagjay.

Nahi Usme to ham puch te hai k ye batao tanqa (salary) ketni hai, Makaan apna hai k nahi, agar Saas (Mother-in-law) mari hai fir bahut acchi baat hai. Aur Nande mari hui hi fir to  Nurul alal Noor hai. Samaj the hi ki hamari beeti aish karegi.

Laikin dusre ki bacchio ki zindegia qaraab karne liye bas ise mashware diye jaate hai. Isliye Shariyat ne mana kardiya hai, Yeh nahi k baad me kamane lagjayega abhi shaadi kardete hi, aap agar ye zahen banaingy aur shaadi karingy , Beta to gunah gaar hai hi hai, maa baap bhi gunah gaar hongy.

Isliye acchi tariqe se tawajju rakhiye, Ye baat alag hai k baap maal daar hai, aur bahu ko Non-Nafta bete ki taraf se desakta hai, aur wo zimmedari leleta hai, mai bete ki shaadi karraha hun, beta baad me karubar me aay ga, beta abhi pad raha hi baad me job kare ga, aur koi is tarha bacchi dedeta hi, isme koi haraj nahi hi.